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Author: chris (---.public.wayport.net)
Date: 09-26-12 05:13
Hi, I am new to this website. I have already found someone in Ukraine, and I was hoping to get a bit of advice, preferably from women from the former soviet union. So I will tell a bit of my story.
A few months ago, I met a woman from Ukraine on another site. After exchanging a few emails, we began to Skype every day for almost 3 months. So, I went to Ukraine, and we spent 10 days together. We had a great time together; although, nothing physical took place. We have always had no problems being honest with one another, and we talk about everything. So, I asked her about this while still there. She explained that since we had only really known one another for a few days, she was not ready for this as it would be dishonest to me about her feelings. This was all true, and I accepted this. We still had a few more days together, and each day we got closer. Probably should have tried to kiss her again, but decided to be a gentleman. Yes, now I am kicking myself for this. While at the airport waiting to return home, she asked me not to see anyone else. I agreed as did she. Finally it is time for me to go through security, and we hug and kiss, closed mouth.
As soon as I returned home, we began talking every day on skype again and spoke about when I should return. So, I have booked my flight to be there for three weeks at the end of December for her Christmas. The plan is for me to stay with her in her apartment some of the time, and the rest of the time staying with her family in her parents home in the countryside. All seems to be going well at this point; although, waiting to see her again sucks. Skype does not compare to real face time, but it is better than nothing. So almost every day we skype, and when we can not, we send emails.
So, last week she tells me that she needs to go to Russia to get a passport for her son since she is technically a citizen of Russia (information I already was aware of). Her other older son lives there with her ex-husbands mother, and that is where she will stay for 3 weeks while waiting on the passport. This seems odd to me, but I am unsure how passport application are done in Russia. Also, she tells me that her ex, who lives in another city and never sees her or the children, will be there and is picking her up from the train station. She has been there for about 4 days now, and we have not spoken on skype, only through emails. I had expected this due to privacy issues at her ex mother-in-laws home. In an email she told me that her ex-husband wanted to get back together, but she did not want that. She says that she thinks of me often and misses me.
Here is my problem. My current Ukrainian girlfriend (for lack of a better word) whom I have hardly even kissed has been spending the last 4 days with her ex-husband who wants her back. Maybe it is just a bit of jealousy, but this all seems odd. We have not Skyped once since she has been there, and normally we do this every day. Also, the emails from her seem to be every other day.
I am thinking that if she was really into me like she says, then she would find a way to talk to me or find the time to at least send me a short email every day.
So, I would love to hear some opinions about all this. I am thinking about emailing her about this, but I want to get a little advice first.
Thanks,
Chris
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