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Author: Shivangi (---.kd.ny.adsl)
Date: 09-17-09 14:19
hi.how r u baby
can we be a frend baby
my mobaile number
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This is the standard message I receive *disgusted* Today I feel sarcastic and irritable and have finally decided to do something to change thsi situation because I'm serious about marriage and cannot just let it be.
Well, To begin with I am very new to the idea of dating -online or otherwise. I say 'idea' because I am quite shy and was a nerd throughout my academic life :) I can be painfully honest which is something I am trying to curb given the way I have seen men react to something which imho is perfectly normal.
I am an educated lady with a good familial background and due to some very unfortunate circumstances I have had to seek divorce from my husband. I was married for such a short time it felt like a blur but something that etched some very painful memories in my soul. I am just seeking a mate to share my life with, grow old with and hear a child's laughter with.
I have posted a profile on a few sites on a friend's insistence as I rarely have the time to socialise given the fact that I am a student and am working at the same time. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but if you have an opinion that is sensible I would love to hear it.
I get men who are:
* the type above who send vulgar trash or become extremely rude when refused.
* too old (though I am very flexible about age - I DO have a limit. I don't intend to play shopping-mate to your daughter as old as me. I was married to an older man and I DO know, thankyouverymuch).
* with children from previous marriages (a personal preference because I don't believe in shared affections, call it what you may).
* without a decent level of English (sorry, but communication is the cornerstone of all relationships).
If you have to be rude please spare me. However, I just wanted to let out a bit of steam and though I belive that my foot is firmly planted in my mouth I would be calling anyone who is serious about marriage.
Regards,
Shivangi
P.S.: If you have really read through all that, thanks.
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