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Author: Marina (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date: 05-31-07 07:51
Yes, Sveta, I understand the meaning from the context, but still don’t get what this abbreviation stands for.
Dear girls, I just want to explain why Joe’s advice doesn’t cause my keen reaction.
I have been dating a lot for a long time, and I know how much difficult it is sometimes to find time for meeting a man not even from different country but different state. We are always in a rush, we never have time, and we plan our vacation at least 6 months in advance. That’s why I try to display understanding when a man, driving on a weekend 3-4 hours from different state, says I am not the only one he wants to meet.
Of course it is not that pleasant to read Joe’s too calculating advice, but for me it is at least understandable. Once again, for me seeking a man is a hard work, akin to looking for a job or apartment in NY :). He wants to meet more than one girl? Why not? He wants to use agency? Fine! At least he may avoid being in trouble like one of my correspondent, who sent me this:
“…And I can say K. was really lucky, he only lost some time and money on his date with a Ukraine women, because I traveled to Odessa in the spring of 2004 and was robed by the women I was writing to by her friends and one of her friend was a Ukraine Police with the AK /47 pointing at me and demanding I turn over all my money to them “.
How do you like that?
My son is going to FSC in ten days to meet a girl he met over the Internet. She is only 18, but she doesn’t even conceal how much she wants to get him and come over, and of course it makes me worry, and I’m just begging him: “Andrew, please, use condom and… common sense :), I don’t want to be a grandma yet”.
See, how different may be girls and women in our country?
And one more thing I want to ask. I hope my English is good enough to understand it, but, guys, frankly, I don’t see any clue to consider Joe as a sex tourist, not even between the lines. Moreover, some of his statements are very close to my point of view, for example, such as “I could have been happily married many times but I am ashamed to say that I was just too picky and had too high of expectations” or “Be honest, tell them before you ever meet that you are coming to meet her and another girl. A realistic woman will understand if you are upfront and honest.” Even this one: “Dont give up! Good ones are out there for sure, dont let any bad experience change your opinion on this process.”
What is wrong about that? I can only guess that if he were just a sex tourist he would probably find a better place to share his experience…
Regarding bad words, of course it’s not nice to say them, but honestly, girls, don’t you use even stronger bad words on Russian site? Check for yourself…
Dear girls, Olesya, Sweety, I am sorry about your sad experience, and I can just wish you not to stick with it, learn, and move on. Don’t put too much hopes on photos, e-mails and talks on the phone; only face-to-face meeting may put everything on its right place. And try not to hate the men; we still need them :)
As for me, it seems like it easier to swim over the ocean than to find a man who will be able to break my own perfect plan :)
Thanks for your time.
P.S. Come on, guys, men, give us your point!
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