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Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Annyta (---.st.lg.ukrtel.net)
Date: 07-09-05 07:43

Hello, everybody.
I can say I'm new in this site. And I'm here c'ause I really hope to find smb special. But what I've descovered lately is that - it's so much difficult to do. First of all only veeeeeeery old men write - like 45 or 50. So, common now, do they really hope that a young girl of 24 y.o. will fall in love with them?! And whenever I'm trying to get connected with somebody younger - they just send me a greeting and when I give them my E-mail address, they never write!!! I wonder, what are you people looking for on this site?!
Could somebody please explain me why all this happens. I'm a genuine person, who's just willing to find her "second half" on the net c'ause of lack of time. If smb could give me an advice how to do that, I'd really appreciate.

Thanks in advance.

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just be patient

Author: James (---.dsl.tulsok.swbell.net)
Date: 07-09-05 08:01

You have to give it time. I got the same greetings as you from girls in ukraine and then i replied and got no response, and this kept happening for maybe the first 1-2 months, and i was geting frustrated with the site, as only girls that were 18-22 were emailing me, and that was too young for me, so i think you have to be very patient and give it time, and you will start to get letters from men closer to your age.

So thats my advice. Also try putting your profile on 1-2 other sites, as it gives you more opportunities to meet different people. For example, if you go on www.americansingles.com which has many scammers on it, you will get loads of replies from men, but then you would have to decide who is real and who just wants casual relations. Compared to new-dating.com, where I think that most of the guys on this site are on it to meet 1 girl to share their life with, so please just be patient and you will meet someone.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: JeffS (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date: 07-09-05 08:22

I can't help you sorry.

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Re: just be patient

Author: Annyta (---.st.lg.ukrtel.net)
Date: 07-09-05 10:47

Hey, James, thanks so much for your reply. And thanks for the sites you gave me. I’ll try to use them. I agree with you that it takes time to find smb u’ve been dreaming about. But surely It’ll work out one day. And thanks a lot for worning about scammers – u’re right, there are lots of them in these kinda sites.

Hey, I’d like to wish u good luck as well.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Andrew (---.vic.bigpond.net.au)
Date: 07-09-05 14:58

Hi Annyta

Well here is a breath of fresh air, I only joined recently and had 3 or 4 girls of your age email me. Well at first I was a little shocked but replied with the age question thrown in amongst the Bla Bla Bla, it was evident within only a couple of emails that they were scammers although I can't proove it 100%. Anyway I did email quite a few ladys around my age and now talk to a georgeous creature 5 years younger than me. Hell its only the beginning but its a nice feeling to get a warm response, good luck in your search if you only were a bit younger I have a handsome blue eyed son who would be interested :-)

Andrew

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: tann (---.quantum.ru)
Date: 07-09-05 20:27

Ah hahaha
Good idea about the son!

:)

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: JeffS (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date: 07-10-05 19:40

I can't help you sorry.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: JeffS (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date: 07-11-05 04:37

I finally have an answer for you. Most younger men meet woman at work or from friends. Only the one who can't find a woman would think of using the internet. Maybe you should consider yourself lucky. Older men are wiser and more kind to younger woman. I know of some men that have younger wives and the wives seem very happy and in love. To some people age is not that important. We all look for love. I am 55 and haved loved a woman much older than myself. To me she is fantastic. It is the person that counts not the age.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: James (---.dsl.tulsok.swbell.net)
Date: 07-11-05 05:30

So would you date someone younger than your kids - i think the answer is yes. :) So just how young a girl would you go for? 18. 19? I am curious. :) There are some very beautiful women on this site in their 30's, so why not one of them?

In America though, age is a big thing since women here would never usually date someone more than 8-9 years older than them, cuz it would freak them out and they do like dating younger men.

I do know a person here in tulsa, the guy is 23, and he was seeing a woman that was 42. I know another case of a man being 42, and the girl 19, but the girl was with him because she wanted a well off guy that could give her life that she felt she deserved. So there are a few cases of big age gaps between couples.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: JeffS (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date: 07-11-05 05:49

I am 55 James, if a woman of 35 falls in love with me there is nothing wrong with that, I would not date a 21 year old. But a 20 year age difference is ok. We all love for different reasons. Some are for looks, some kindness, etc. We are all different. As I said I have loved a woman much older than me. It was from afar, but I still loved her. Love is like magic. You never know when it will appear. But as I said. Common sense must to used as well. To me a woman of beauty or younger age is not a trophy. She is the woman I love and will be treated with the respect she deserves.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Lance (---.seattle-11rh15rt.wa.dial-access.att.net)
Date: 07-11-05 09:47

Privet Annushka,
Looking at your profile, let me suggest that you add some more information about your self in the About Me section. Also, you should have at least one glamorous photograph. My opinion is that one candid photo and one glamorous photo works the best.

Your problem is that there are thousands of women on the internet, so there is a lot of competition for you. Make yourself stand out, write something interesing or unique in your profile. Yet, be yourself. In the end the goal is to find the right one, not just anyone.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Blaine (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date: 07-23-05 17:31

screaming for #1313 again!! save us,cutie!!

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Roy (---.dip0.t-ipconnect.de)
Date: 07-24-05 21:07

Advice? Have you checked to see the number of single young men and the number of single older men here? I have not but I bet it is reverse for women. More young women less young men. It is a simple fact for most men that until they are well in to their 20's they are not too interested in the romantic letters that the women on these sites write. They are still trying to impress their friends, act like they are studs and porn stars or just too interested in parties to want to find a serious relationship.
Of course this does not apply to all and I was like that a little too when I was in my 20's. I look back and regret that I lost many girlfriends because it was more important to hang out and party with my friends. Not until we are older do we look for that type of friendship in a woman and some never look for friendship.. Good luck and don't let a few "cold shoulders" stop you from looking. Everyone has hundres of possible soulmates around the world, the trick is to keep searching until we find one of them..

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: jbowe (---.proxy.aol.com)
Date: 07-25-05 01:23

I'll give you some advice. Because I don't believe in not telling the truth. First thing I would say to you is grow up. You not only sound like a spoiled brat but you also insult men that are in their fourties and fifties. Theres an old saying in the US and that is if you want the job then dress for the job you want. But with a mouth like you seem to have I doubt if there is enough cloths to make you appealing even to a verrrrrrrry old man.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: James (---.ppco.com)
Date: 07-25-05 18:14

Actually not all guys are like you. I was married to my first girlfriend, and i wanted love and romance and one girl from an early age, and there are many men that like that out there.

There are guys out there that from an early age just want one girl. All my friends from UK are similar to me. 2 of my best friends from UK, are now 28, and they are both engaged to their 2nd girlfriends, and both believe in love, romance and marriage from an early age.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Roy (---.dip0.t-ipconnect.de)
Date: 07-25-05 22:13

Well, I dreamed of love and romance at an early age..( 18) but I was not as openly romantic as the women I dated until I was in my late 20's. I also spent a lot of time hanging out with the guys which is what I meant earlier.
I still had dreams in the back of head of getting married and children but I bet very few men under 25 (maybe just the USA) seriously wanted to be "tied down" You even stated that you friends are engaged at 28 but how long before they get married? I was engaged to my brother-in-laws stepsister when I was almost 18 and she was 16 but, as i said, I paid too much attention to my friends and she married a man about 5 years older than me.
Now that I am older friends always come second. So this woman of 25 needs to understand that she is at the "romantic an emotional" maturity of men many years older than her. But I am speaking from an american veiwpoint.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Blaine (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date: 07-28-05 03:30

True as Darya has so clearly stated. You need a second photo

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: The Right Girl (---.lg.ukrtel.net)
Date: 08-03-05 01:11

Helloooo, everybody, I'd like to thank you all so much for your advice. They really helped me. And I'd like to wish all of you to find your special ones.

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Re: Could smb plz give me an advice!!!

Author: Lance (---.boeing.com)
Date: 08-03-05 01:21

Much better!!! :)) Your real beauty clearly shows now.

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