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Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: tann (---.77.quantum.ru)
Date: 01-22-05 18:04

It does :)
Of those ones who pretend to be with serious intentions but in fact they cheat women.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: PIERRE (---.cpe.net.cable.rogers.com)
Date: 01-22-05 18:41

Tann
who is the judge of those who pretend to have seroius intentions and infact cheat women

from pierre

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: PIERRE (---.cpe.net.cable.rogers.com)
Date: 01-22-05 19:07

tann
Maybe i am on this list, due to the amount of interest i have shown to a fair number of ladies. Also have had much correspondance.My reason is that i am most serious as to why i am doing this- to find somebody special and nothing else as i have no time for games, i treat this very serious.PIERRE wrote:

> Tann
> who is the judge of those who pretend to have seroius
> intentions and infact cheat women
>
> from pierre

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Grant (---.bmts.com)
Date: 01-22-05 19:19

Pierre,

It would be odd for such a list to exist.

Despite I myself have been gullible enough to be scammed once on another website by a Russian "woman" I am still hoping to find someone special too but now know to be more careful. I am definitely serious.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: tann (---.77.quantum.ru)
Date: 01-22-05 20:43

Cold down, guys.
The site obviousely made by clever and serious women. What is important - untill the moment I have no doubts that every written litter there is true. Will see what goes next.

This has nothing with numerous correspondents, Pierre. Most of messages based on personal meetings. You know a category of sex tourists... who is later turned out to be married for example. Or who wills internet sex only and engages to it, they all disappear immediatelly when a woman asks about a real meeting. Or other liers.

Why do you find it odd, Grand? Why don't you find oddish an existance of women black lists? I've heard stories when women were placed there because of revenge.

I don't think these stories are fake. Russian women are tired of men who tries "to use them" and want to protect themselves. When you read different replies on the board, you realize that many of women have met those "heros" with the same behavior - men, who are listed. Russian women are not revengeful, not at all. Yet, here, in Russia, there are some kind of sodality and support of each other. I think this is a big difference with other countries.

Don't get into panic. Be honest, that's enough :)

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Timothy (---.client.comcast.net)
Date: 01-23-05 00:33

Hi Tann,

Are you referring to www.antidate.org?

Interesting reading - seems like most of the guys are nutters or simply losers;
some are hysterical (like the fat guy that sent naked pictures with his introduction letters, LOL!)

My understanding is that only 5-10% of the men who write FSU women ever actually get on a plane to visit them.
I bet the percentage of freaks that write just for fun is much higher! =(

And of the men that do travel, no doubt that many of them have other agendas besides a sincere search for a life partner.

Seems that for every serious, marriage minded man that visits FSU, there is a dozen keyboard Romeos and sex tourists that the women have to filter out.

This is exactly the opposite from what we men encounter -
There are FAR, FAR more ladies that are sincerely looking for marriage than there are women scammers and professional daters...
it is simply that the bad press and horror stories are what get all the attention.

Timothy

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: tann (---.quantum.ru)
Date: 01-23-05 09:56

Hello Timothy,

It's always pleasure to read your postings. I wish everyone had such respect to women as you do. Thanks a lot!

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: SingleMaleUSNY (---.nyc.rr.com)
Date: 03-20-05 03:28

Tann/Timothy:

Can you guys seriously quote any stats on the issue? It seems to me that we are groping in the dark. My personal experience, as someone seriously looking for a mate, is there are a lot of women who are scammers. I am sure there are many men who are out to have just fun. But can one say that one outnumbers the other?

SAuffice to say that there are scammers/pretenders of both sexes. I have learnt from experience never to pay money for letters or for anything else and that seems to keep me safe. I was scammed by someone from Australia, so what. Stuff happens. One cannot let one experience sour one's entire outlook. In addition it can happen in the real world as well it does not have to be on the Internet alone.

Best Wishes

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Gulnur (212.13.188.---)
Date: 03-25-05 14:42

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: tann (---.quantum.ru)
Date: 03-25-05 16:15

No, I am just watching what goes on in the internet :)

http://www.antidate.org/

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: James (---.dsl.tulsok.swbell.net)
Date: 04-23-05 05:01

I want to point out that i know of 3 successful ukraine-usa marriages, and one where the couple have been married for 9 years, and because this marriage is so strong, other guys are thinking why cant i find a woman like this and they start embarking on the some search. Thats why i am on here.

Also, i have been on other sites and chatted to some usa guys and they are looking for casual realtionship, yet the girls they will meet want something serious. I dont like this at all, and maybe there should be a scammer site for us guys which women can access to warn them about married guys or guys that use girls.

I myself, can say i just want serious relationship only, and not with 18 yr old girls, and yes i have been to Russia 3 times and Ukraine 1 time, and i have been scammed by girls that i have met, but i choose to move on and believe there are nice girls out there, and i learn to be more careful as to who i meet next time. Also, always meet the girl in her country, and you can never go wrong.

Also, i would not meet someone that is so young that i would feel uncomfortable dating ithem in my home country. If i met a 20 yr old in USA, i just could not date her its too young, so i choose not to correspond with girls so young from Ukraine. If you couldnt date someone in your home country because of your age what makes you think you could make it work with girl from another country. Plus, girls that young are very immature and what they want changes very quickly.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Kevin (213.210.33.---)
Date: 05-17-05 14:15

I looked at this question and it has intrigued me.

the question of ladies that scam is an easy point, namely ,not their own photos,working , often in groups with the express task of obtaining money by leading the man to think that they are interested in a relationship.

I am struggling to see how a man can scam a lady from eastern europe.

Unless the man is totalloy stupid his photo will be his own, it therefore follows the age will be correct . no point turning up at the airport pretending to be 25 if you are 55.

there is obviously no money scam, cannot imagine asking the lady to pay for his visa

so that leaves the big question ...is he looking for sex only. well if the lady likes him and wants to , it is her decision . if she does not, the man should respect this

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Irina (---.211.110.130.adsl-spb.net.rol.ru)
Date: 05-27-05 12:09

I had no idea it exists. Does anybody know where I could find it? It would be very useful. Thanks in advance.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Yulia (---.151.sitel.com.ua)
Date: 05-28-05 12:57

Ira,

Look above, in one of Tann's posts there's a link to that resource.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Blaine (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date: 05-29-05 09:05

Here`s the shame,in my opinion,of men who pursue FSU women. They go to a country to meet one woman,and instead,hit on and try to date every woman who they meet,with the idea of sexual conquest. There are men out there that seem very proud of this. The "scam" of course-for men and women, is insincerity. This word describes the situation better then scam.

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Re: Hey, do you know that a black list of men exist?

Author: Enrico (201.224.173.---)
Date: 05-31-05 16:57

Good day all,

I must admit that Timothy and James have good point of views on the issue.

I agree that there are much more honest and good women available that have truthful intentions then men. The women had just bad press from few negative stories. As for the age issue it’s the same thing. I find that older women are more serious about relationships and the possibilities are much better. As for me, I am just starting my search. I am from Canada but have been living and working in Latin America for a few years. You meet people from bad intentions in any part of the world. I guess being a foreigner in another country at times you can be exposed to situations that you have never seen in your home country. But with good judgment and being down to earth you can filter out those situations. As for contacting women from Russia or Ukraine, I am just starting so will see where my journey will take me. Women from Russia and Ukraine intrigue me, not only for beauty or there culture but way of thinking and way of life.

Cheers
Enrico

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