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 What do the western men mean when offer to be just friends?..

Profile		 Author: Aida  (195.69.160.---)
Date:   07-19-05 11:37

I have a friend who had three friend - western men. She considered them just as a friend, but suddenly these "friends" began to show jealosy and require more attention, than just friend could ask. But it's possible to have many male friends and just one darling. So, what do the western men think when offer friendship?

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Profile		 Author: Andrew  (---.vic.bigpond.net.au)
Date:   07-19-05 13:10

Aida

They say a man and woman can not be Just friends, I can not say. Maybe she needs to remind them of their position in her life. Friends Only ;)

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Profile		 Author: Lance  (---.seattle-08rh15-16rt.wa.dial-access.att.net)
Date:   07-19-05 16:49

Women who think men only want friendship do not really understand men. Men who say they only want to be friends say that because they are not attracted, OR, are settling for friendship and hoping that someday it might change.

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Profile		 Author: Blaine  (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date:   07-19-05 18:59

I agree Lance. A man who says he only wants to be friends may well have another woman who he is interested in,or is simply not attracted,or is fishing for many different women.

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Profile		 Author: tann  (---.quantum.ru)
Date:   07-19-05 20:23

Aida wrote:

> but suddenly these "friends" began to show jealosy and require more attention

A flare-up of testosterone level! Tell her wait untill it goes down :)

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Profile		 Author: Blaine  (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date:   07-20-05 00:07

That sounds like the punch line to a joke--why nurses make poor lovers:they do nothing until the swelling goes down ;o)

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Profile		 Author: James  (---.dsl.tulsok.swbell.net)
Date:   07-20-05 04:35

Aida - I have many female friends in USA, and they are just friends - nothing more. They tell me about their love relationships and i can give them my advice as a friend and i am happy when they marry.

A man that gets jealous wants more than friendship with girl, he wants relations.

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Profile		 Author: Aida  (195.69.160.---)
Date:   07-20-05 10:51

To James: If there is desire of relations why not to say it in the beginning. It's much more easily! Why to hide it?

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Profile		 Author: James  (---.ppco.com)
Date:   07-20-05 19:38

Aida - People do hide it all the time, some people are afraid to express their feelings, others wait and think maybe we are friends now, and we can have relations later. Also, there is fear that woman might end friendship if she finds out you want more than friendship. By the way this has happened to me. :)

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Profile		 Author: Lance  (---.seattle-19-20rs.wa.dial-access.att.net)
Date:   07-21-05 06:24

James wrote:

> Aida - People do hide it all the time, some people are afraid
> to express their feelings, others wait and think maybe we are
> friends now, and we can have relations later. Also, there is
> fear that woman might end friendship if she finds out you want
> more than friendship. By the way this has happened to me. :)

Which is exactly my point. IF there is an Attraction, then true friendship is impossible between a man and a woman. If there it NO attraction, then yes, it's possible, but that lack of attraction has to be mutual and HONEST.

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Profile		 Author: JeffS  (---.dyn.optonline.net)
Date:   07-21-05 14:35

It means they don't like you enough for marriage.

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