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Author: lexusuk (---.in-addr.btopenworld.com)
Date: 03-30-04 10:48

internet cafes in Russia are there web cams in these cafes if so is it expensive ? Seems that ladies over there take ages to reply to e mail
and some e mails are the same words as others there So how do i know if
it is the lady i am writing too .

So i was thinking may be a web cam or has anybody got any advice as to what is the best to do.

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Author: tann (---.quantum.ru)
Date: 03-30-04 13:44

Haven't seen web cams in internet cafes. Why don't you ask the number of her phone and just call to her? Tell her you just impatient to hear her voice :)

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Author: lexusuk (---.in-addr.btopenworld.com)
Date: 03-30-04 23:36

hi Tan
yes i could call her but does not say that she is the one in the picture
all these pictures are taken from a photo shop so it hard to know if it is the true picture and to send money for visa seems a risk

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Author: Ultra (---.go-online.ru)
Date: 04-20-04 06:24

Lexusuk,

DON”t send any money until you are dead sure that you are corresponding/talking to the person you think. First of all I think it is essential to establish good relations based on mutual understanding and trust. Ask her politely (trying not to offend her) to send you more pictures, say for example with her family, friends…Talk to her on the phone and try to understand her real motives. And then what visa she is asking money for? Tourist? To come to U.K.? Do you know that it is extremely difficult to obtain one to this country, especially for a not married lady?

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Author: lexusuk (---.in-addr.btopenworld.com)
Date: 04-24-04 01:50

ultra i took your advice i suggested i visit there to see her but she told me it was her country tradtion for her to visit my family first i told her it was t o late i have booked ticket for myself and that i would be there i have never heard from her again . yes she wanted $1,500 dollars for visa and flights
i told her i have account with many airlines which my company has and i would book ticket . but no reply again so i have gave up but thanks any way

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Author: Varun (---.146.202.68.cfl.rr.com)
Date: 04-24-04 13:53

Hey Lex, I have been corresponding with girls from Eastern Europe for a while now and there are real ones out there but you have to be very careful of scammers. I used to be much more naive but now I can identify them instantly because they all use the same handful of specific strategies, I guess because these methods have shown them results. From what you say she is without a doubt a scammer. Be careful.

No offense but it seems like you this person has fooled you very easily, so I would suggest in most people's cases, and especially in your case, never send money for any reason whatsoever until you have the chance to meet the girl in person. And make sure you get to know her very personally and in detail.

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Author: lexusuk (---.in-addr.btopenworld.com)
Date: 04-26-04 02:20

hi Varun

yes seems like you are right so looks like i have to try again and look for the real thing

thanks

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Author: Ultra (---.go-online.ru)
Date: 04-26-04 07:04

Hi Lex,
I am very glad that you got rid of this scammer, as I am sure now that she really is because “it is her country tradition for her to visit your family first” sounds very silly because there is no such a tradition. I wish you good luck and hope that you will find your Only One. The most important things to watch out: ladies-scammers usually don’t have much time for correspondence and start saying how they are interested in you and even love you after several letters. When they feel that you are “ready” they start complaining how difficult their life is, that somebody of their relatives is ill and medicine is very expensive, that they need money for English lessons, internet café, visa, tickets etc, etc. But please keep in mind - the ones that are sincere and honest will never ask for money or gifts. Even if they are very poor, they are also very proud. If you stick to the rule of never sending money to a girl, you will be all set. The bad ones will see this and leave you alone immediately.

I wish you luck once again!

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Author: lexusuk (---.in-addr.btopenworld.com)
Date: 04-26-04 08:47

Hi Ultra

Thanks for your advice and i will do what you tell me thank you if you ever need any adice from me it will be my pleasure to help

take care

Ray

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Author: Ultra (---.go-online.ru)
Date: 04-28-04 06:44

Ray,

Thank YOu.

Take care too.

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Author: Dennis (---.client.comcast.net)
Date: 05-24-04 10:11

Dear Ray and all,

The idea to send her money for a visa or for airline ticket is a common scam!! Do not send money!! At least not until after you have met face to face. Prior to that assume it is a scam if you are asked for money, because 99.9% of the time it is. Whether it is for visa, ticket, mother's emergency operation, bribe to gov't official for passport, English lessons, etc.... these are all common scams. BE CAUTIOUS! Even talking on the phone doesn't prove anything like you said. One girl I called suddenly had a diffferent job and a brother instead of a sister! lol I sure hung up on her quickly!! Please don't send money to girls until after you meet them. It is the best policy for everyone concerned.

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Author: Roberto (---.cg.shawcable.net)
Date: 06-06-04 18:17

I don't even think there are web cams in internet cafe's in North America either. At least I never saw any. Dennis wrote:

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Author: Violetta (---.ccab.kz)
Date: 06-10-04 00:14

One of the way to make sure that she is a real women is to send her a not expensive gift and to ask her to take pictures with that gift and send you the pictures back by the ordinary post.
I think it could give you an idea to make sure.

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