March 22 - April 20
How to influence her: You can influence her by being well read, knowledgeable and cultured. Don't try to force your opinions or wishes upon her, she rails at being bossed around because she wants to be boss. Instead appeal to her with logic and reason and sympathy to get your point across. She may appear to be aggressive when you meet and she'll let you know where you stand with her. She likes to smother her man with motherly attention, let her. She is sympathetic to others needs so she'll listen to yours. She likes being around people, so introduce her to your friends. She likes to be a social butterfly but she will remain loyal to you. She likes to get out ahead and lead, so give her space and let her burn off some of her energy. She makes decisions with out thinking of the consequences or repercussions, you may have to bail her out.
A few don'ts: Never criticize her in front of others or suggest that she is wrong, she'll become very unpleasant and combative. Never try to boss her or give orders, she has a fanatical obsession that she is doing the right thing. Appeal to her with reason and suggestions that appear to be constructive ideas or options. Don't get overly friendly with her female friends, she gets jealous easily. Be certain that you dress well, don't be inattentive about your appearance.
She goes best with: Leo, Sagittarius, Taurus, Aquarius
She clashes with: Gemini, Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces
Neutral: Aries, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
April 21 - May 20
How to influence her: Flattery will get you everywhere with this affectionate sentimentalist. Even if she feels that you are putting one on her, she can't resist the compliment. Give her gifts that have a sentimental meaning behind them. They don't have to be expensive (although that doesn't hurt) The gifts should have a sentimental meaning so you may have to fabricate one. (our 1st month together, etc.) . She will appreciate showing affection for her by the old fashioned style of chivalrous attention. Give her a card with a poem that you wrote, (or you found in a book). She's a romantic and appreciates things you do that are be steeped in traditions of the past. You could serenade her beneath her window but you'll need a good voice. Be certain that you can carry on a conversation because she can engage in a wide variety of subjects. Be a bit reserved, but not aloof, she likes mystery. Sound intelligent when you speak. Be sure to take her out to dine at a variety of places. She may take pride in her cooking skills, so be certain to freely compliment her, and she'll stuff you until you bust.
A few don'ts: Don't be a cheapskate with her, because she is generous in nature. She likes harmony and tranquility, so don't engage in arguing and harsh discussions. If you see she has an opinion about something, don't try to change it. Don't try to force her into anything she is unwilling to get involved with.
She goes best with: Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Pisces
She clashes with: Scorpio, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Neutral: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Libra
May 21 - June 20
How to influence her: Approach her through knowledge and mind activity. She knows about lots of things but not in depth. She is impressed by a person that has an intellect that she can appreciate. Be sure to sound intelligent even if you don't know what you are talking about. Be patient because she has to bounce back and forth before she makes up her mind about you. Don't get physical until you have secured her intellect first. She likes to keep busy doing things so she won't become bored, so find her a few things she can do for you. Be certain to you show your appreciation for her help. Do compliment her on her mental knowledge and ability, she'll just love it. She likes to flit around but needs someone that is stable that she can anchor to, be the rock of gibralter.
She is creative, so find things for her demonstrate it. Don't forget to compliment her. She can get depressed easily, so be her cheerleader to get her up again.
A few don'ts: She is rather independent, so don't try to control her activities or restrict them, she'll become quarrelsome and anxiety ridden. Don't carry on about depressing and negative things because she can easily fall into depression herself. Allow her to know that you really care for her by word and action. She needs that assurance.
She goes best with: Libra, Aquarius, Gemini, Pisces
She clashes with: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Neutral: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio
June 21 - July 22
How to influence her: She needs the security of a strong and dominant man but not an oppressor. She has difficulty in making decisions, so help her with them. She likes social activities, but is more attracted to family, home and children. Take an interest in these things with her. She is moody and can go from laughing to crying in a micro second. Be patient and understanding. She is sympathetic to others emotions and can easily take up their crosses. Coax her from this situation gently. She will tend to put you on a pedestal so be watchful that you maintain your stature or she'll be hurt. She needs you to be there when she needs your strength, so be strong and unfailing.
A few don'ts: Don't discuss personal affairs in public. She is careful with money, so don't be a spendthrift. Don't criticize her publicly, she can fall to pieces.
She goes best with: Scorpio, Pisces, Taurus, Virgo
She clashes with: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Gemini
Neutral: Cancer, Libra, Capricorn, Aquarius
July 23 - August 22
How to influence her: She likes to be the center of attention, so give her lots of it. You can be the king as long as you let her be the queen. She likes her social popularity, so take her out amongst hers and your friends. She likes gifts and surprises that make her the center piece, be creative in this regard. She is a homebody at heart and will always have someone over, help her to plan those activities. She is open and not shy to any conversation, so engage her in the most intimate of topics. She wants to be friend and lover at the same time so learn when its best to be her friend or her lover. Be open, frank, and truthful with her, she doesn't like evasiveness.
A few don'ts: Don't criticize her friends, the way she dresses or anything that she may view as demeaning, don't bump her off the pedestal. Don't put down her family or her home, they are part of her queendom. She has her own views so don't force yours upon her. Don't try to dominate her or her place at the center of attention.
She goes best with: Aries, Sagittarius, Leo, Aquarius
She clashes with: Gemini, Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio
Neutral: Taurus, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn
August 23 - Sept 22
How to influence her: She appears cool and reserved on the surface but she has passion within for the one she chooses. She sets high standards of performance and may criticize you for failing to live up to them. She appreciates those with mental ability and intellect. She wants to see that you have ambitions for financial success, but the money is less important than the intention. She is practical and down to earth and gifts should be practical things that can be useful.
A few don'ts: She likes to be involved, so consult her when making decisions. Don't get into emotional outbursts, she appreciates self control. She likes to keep certain things secret, so don't force the issue when she refuses to divulge them. She likes kindness and consideration more than material things to show you care.
She goes best with: Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces, Virgo
She clashes with: Scorpio, Aquarius, Leo, Aries
Neutral: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius
Sept 23 - October 22
How to influence her: She needs time to get acquainted to someone and shrinks when someone is too aggressive in an approach. Allow her to get used to you. She is a romantic and likes a hero swashbuckling type. Read up on heroes. She may be romantic but has a tendency to be sarcastic or cynical about things in general. Be tolerant. She likes someone that has a pattern to his life and shows self discipline. She may not see your biggest blunder, but freak out over some small trivial thing that you do. She may get angry but will shortly forget about it.
A few don'ts: She likes you to exhibit calm and peace of mind, don't blow your cool. Don't expect her to go camping with you unless you have a very large camper. Talk about art, theater and right brained things as though you really liked them. Don't cramp her style with frugality and economy.
She goes best with: Gemini, Aquarius, Leo, Aries, Virgo
She clashes with: Taurus, Capricorn, Scorpio, Sagittarius
Neutral: Cancer, Libra, Pisces
Oct 23 - Nov 22
How to influence her: This sensual woman has a deep sexuality that she keeps secret from the common man. Because she is strong, aggressive and forward, she needs a man that demonstrates his capability, strength and resourcefulness in a commanding way. Never allow her to perceive you as a wimp or weak. She needs to know she is the center piece of your thoughts, don't take her for granted. She likes money, but has the foresight to be patient if you have the potential to achieve it. Be sure that you have a future to talk about. When aroused to anger, she can become acidic and raucous, so thicken your skin and turn a deaf ear. She'll probably forget what she said or how angry she was within a half hour. Watch your behavior and be discreet, because she is concerned what others will think or say about her.
A few don'ts: Don't show that you are the least bit defeated by anything. Always appear undaunted by even the most trying circumstances. Don't be peevish or vacillating, be happy and positive instead. Don't be caustic, cynical or abrasive like she can become, but demonstrate cool calmness and self control.
She goes best with: Cancer, Pisces, Gemini, Sagittarius, Capricorn
She clashes with: Aries, Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Libra
Neutral: Scorpio, Aquarius
Nov 23 - Dec 21
How to influence her: She likes Mr. Nice Guy, considerate, courteous, charming. Polish up your technique. She's quite frank and outspoken and occasionally forgets to think before speaking, so prepare yourself for a few shockers. She's independent and capable but she still needs a strong man to anchor onto. Show her your strong dependable nature, not weakness. She'll test you to see if you are weak, so don't let her intimidate you, tell her to shut up and ignore the ruse. She will sometimes obsess over little things and make herself depressed, cheer her up and advise her about the problem. She'll be happy as long as you don't flirt with other women.
A few don'ts: Don't try bossing her around, ask or suggest diplomatically. Don't get affectionate or too showy in public with her. Wait until you are in private to turn up the steam. Don't expect her to give up civilization and live out in the boon docks with nothing to do, she needs activity especially for her mind.
She goes best with: Aries, Leo, Scorpio, Virgo, Sagittarius
She clashes with: Gemini, Cancer, Libra, Taurus
Neutral: Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces
Dec 22 - Jan 19
How to influence her: She's concerned with security and position, so if you have promise, she'll hitch a ride with you and become your manager and cheerleader. Show her a future. She is a traditionalist with a family orientation, you need to show that interest also. She is earthy and has a sex drive that may surprise you. She has to get to know you before she can love you, so be patient and wait for her to come around. She may be more interested in staying at home with you then being out socially. However, if it is regarding career or finances, she'll be happy to be the social bug.
A few don'ts: Don't poke fun at or demean her family. Don't expect her to give up her friends. Don't force her into a social agenda unless it involves career or business. Avoid being critical about her personality or likes and dislikes. Don't expect her to make snap judgments, she needs time to think. Don't expect her to jump into a new and contemporary lifestyle, she is married to convention.
She goes best with: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces
She clashes with: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Aries
Neutral: Cancer, Sagittarius, Capricorn
Jan 20 - Feb 21
How to influence her: Her mind is full of the workings of the universe, that is why she comes up with all that weird stuff. Read up on weird stuff. She has friends from every strata of society and likes them all the same and equally. She'll like you if you like them, so be Mr. congeniality when you meet them. She likes people that are intellectual, knowledgeable and interesting, check your resume to see if you qualify. She will be loyal to you if you show that you respect it, so throw away the little phone book. She needs freedom and cannot tolerate a discordant or restrictive environment. Be certain to give her slack otherwise she may say bye bye. She expects you to be sincere, truthful and open. Act like honest Abe Lincoln.
A few don'ts: Don't act phony or be arrogant, she can't stand it. Don't criticize the way she dresses or interacts with different people or you'll drop down a few rungs on the respect scale. Don't ridicule or laugh at any of her secret thoughts or you'll never hear of them again. Don't try to force any of your old fashioned ideas or behaviors on her, she lives in the future, and may rebel.
She goes best with: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius
She clashes with: Aries, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer, Virgo
Neutral: Leo, Libra, Pisces
Feb 22 - Mar 20
How to influence her: You may find yourself attracted to this woman because there is something mysterious and intriguing about her that you just can't figure out. Join the crowd. She'll purr like a little kitten, if you can show that you are a caring dominant male and have resources to provide her with creature comforts. She is subjective and pliable, but be careful she breaks easily. She may love you but may be too reticent to let you know. Be more open regarding your feelings toward her. She gets in the negative about things, so compliment or re-assure her from time to time about things. She likes old fashioned things and values, but she is modern and believes in equal rights. Respect the traditional in her.
A few don'ts: Don't stifle her, she needs to talk and express her opinion, she'll do it anyways. Don't carry on about negative things, she'll fall into a depressive pit. Keep the conversation upbeat. She will look to you for direction and leadership, so don't be one who waffles or is unable to make a decision.
She goes best with: Cancer, Scorpio, Taurus, Gemini, Virgo, Capricorn
She clashes with: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius, Libra
Neutral: Aquarius, Pisces